I’ve been reading a couple of comments on my twitter
timeline from 30 year olds who bemoan the big ‘three oh’. Well, looking back
from the vantage point of years later, what would I tell my 30 year old self?
1. 1.
One day, when you’re in your 40”s you’ll look
back and think the 30’s were the years you were in your prime – health wise,
career wise. So enjoy this phase to the hilt!
2.
Reaching the 30’s does not mean the din of the
ticking biological clock drowns out the voice inside. Marrying for the wrong reasons invariably means squandering some of your best
years in misery.
3.
We all make mistakes. No one is perfect. It’s
ok. You’re ok. So be kind to yourself.
4.
Dump the guy who treats you badly. But figure out why you attracted this man in
the first place lest you end up playing relationship roulette - “same jerk,
different face”.
5.
Know thy awesomeness; you are much prettier and
smarter than you think. Someone once told
me: “you are so cool and don’t know it’.
I wish I’d known it then.
6.
Experiment; this is the time you can go out on a
limb workwise; if you had to do something different do it now. You have enough
time to join the rat race again. My ‘experimental’ year while not being the
best monetarily was the richest year of my life.
7.
Give love a chance – over and over again.
Relationships are one of the ways we grow and understand ourselves better. Life is good. God is good – if you believe so.
8.
Travel and see the world; do the treks and hikes
that you can do so easily with youth. With the passing of years, the will and
wallet is strong but the flesh is weak. There is so much to see, do and experience in
our country and in the world; don’t waste those years.
9.
You will look back with fondness on your photos
one day and think, “Boy, did I look hot!” So no, you are not too fat.
10.
There is always time for coffee with the
girls. Your girlfriends are your
stalwarts through life; through the ups and downs of men, mother in laws and
the inevitable next “big oh”.
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Brigit: I think I can write a book called the’ Ten
commandments ’
God: Sorry – that’s under copyright. Moses would overturn
in his grave at the thought
Brigit: I think we could do with an overhaul though; that
was more than 2000 years ago; before the digital world
God: Ah, so human beings and relationships are going to be
different in the ‘digital world’?
Brigit: Well, here I am talking to virtual people in a
virtual world; surely the rules must be different. “Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s wife “will
be “Thou shalt not friend thy neighbor’s wife on Facebook.” “Thou shalt keep the Sabbath day holy” will be
“Thou shalt not log onto the internet on Sunday” and of course the 'small still' voice of the Lord shall be a quiet tweet..
God: Good grief! I have only 140 characters to speak to mankind now?!!!